I’ll Put The Past Behind Us, If You Will

I think sometimes communication can actually make things worse because it may not be possible to explain all the reasons we act the way we do. We may not be capable of understanding each other’s problems, no matter how hard we try, or be able to process every comment, piece of advice, and attitude into the truth as it was intended. We just may not be strong enough to deal with certain things because of all that’s going on in our lives at the moment.

I sense a wall going up between us. I liked life better without it, and I hope you did, too. To say “I’m sorry” is an understatement…I’m sorry if I’ve been insensitive to your situation. I’m sorry if I failed to understand something that you thought I should. I’m sorry for whatever’s wrong and for all the reasons it turned out this way. I’m sorry if you’re having a hard time dealing with something in your life and for anything I did or didn’t do that has caused our relationship to be less than it was.

I know some things are hard to talk about, but I just wanted you to know that I’d like to patch up whatever’s wrong. I’d like us to get along. I miss that comfortable feeling we had with each other. Life is so short ; I don’t want there to be tension or bad feelings between us. I want the best for YOU. I want you to be happy.

I’ll put the past behind us, if you will, so we can get on with tomorrow….

Anonymous

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